My friend, Janina, recently pondered who you are on the Internet.

Back in the old days, when you could actually write down the names of all the people on the Internet, people simply used their real names, in abbreviated form: ken, gls, dmr, rms, etc. After all, wasn’t the whole point of a world-wide telecommunications network to put people in touch with each other? And if everyone on the Internet was someone you knew or were going to know, it made sense to use real names. That way, you could be found.

Then, the Internet got a whole lot bigger and a whole lot stranger. People started using pseudonyms called handles or nicks, which provided some degree of anonymity. These became commonplace and became the norm. Especially when you consider that using your real name becomes impractical when there are hundreds of Davids or Muhammeds or Lees in the world.

As people joined the Internet, they still wanted to find each other. So social networks are all the rage now. LiveJournal, MySpace, and Facebook all exist so that you can find and track the people around you. With Facebook, you’re even forced to use your real name, to make it easier for people to connect. There is, however, a compromise to be made. Because you post information about yourself on-line, people you barely know can find out where you live, who you hang out with, and what you’re doing.

This is nothing new, though. We used to live this way, not so long ago, when most people lived in small, rural towns. After all, the neighbours talked! There would also be gossips who’d keep track of when you were coming or going, and with whom you went with. Nobody in their right mind would assume that they could keep bad behaviour under wraps, you always had to keep up your reputation. And when someone new moved into town, they were watched carefully until the rest of the townsfolk accepted them. This, of course, was a good thing.

This whole assumption that most people didn’t know about you came with the great migration to cities, kicked off by the industrial revolution. Now there were so many people flooding in that it was impossible to know everyone you met on the street. That brought a big social problem, because now you had to trust complete strangers. Imagine how stressful that must have been! No wonder the biggest problem in industrial London was the Gin Craze, a collective booze-up that lasted until a generation of people had figured out what city life was like.

Now we have to opposite problem: people having lived all their lives protected by anonymity having to come to terms with it being stripped away. If someone wants to find out about you, they can. Be it with Google or Facebook or Twitter, you have to accept that there are traces of you that anyone can see. And that’s got to be pretty stressful too.

So what can we do about it? Friends-locking posts and privacy settings come to mind, but at best these provide a false sense of security. Remember the controversy surrounding LJfind, when people’s friends-locked posts started showing up in public? And now, every few weeks, someone discovers that a Facebook application is leaking their data. But even if you’re really careful on websites, they are still software are written by programmers. As a programmer myself, I can assure you that we make mistakes, and those mistakes include a simple typo that resets your privacy settings. Oops!

If technology can’t help us, then what? The opposite approach is to be wary of the Internet. You can delete your Facebook account, avoid using GMail, and never use your real name on-line. Sadly, the network effect is working against you here, because other people aren’t doing the same. This year, quite a few people have joined Facebook because they weren’t getting invited to parties and stopped hearing from their friends! Social networks have brought social change, just because it’s so much easier to do the things you want to do, when you’re using Facebook.

OK, what if you just like to stay at home and invite friends over? Well, are you comfortable with party pictures appearing on Flickr? Or birthday wishes posted on Blogger? Well, you can ask your friends not to post anything about you on-line at all. But that doesn’t matter, because organisations are busy putting up their own records on-line. Like the Canadian Tax Court records, which include wonderful tidbits about income, marital status, and other information that’s become public record.

Going down this route is getting more and more unproductive. It seems like these days, if you want to stay truly anonymous, you have to build yourself a shack in the wilderness and isolate yourself from the world. But still, someone can impersonate you on-line with a fake profile, if you’re not watching out for that. So you still have to create your own profile from your wilderness retreat, just to keep the identity thieves at bay.

Remember those rural towns I wrote about? Well, they lived life in a way that we’re going to have to go back to. No longer can you assume that you can say whatever you want or do whatever you want and be lost in a crowd. You’re going to be aware of every camera pointed your way and every blog-post with your name in it. Basically, you can’t just assume your reputation, you have to manage it.

Your public image is going to be one of the most important bits of you in the future. Potential employers and potential friends are bound to do a little reference checking with Google. What if the police start using the Internet for investigations? Or schools for background checks? And your on-line presence is so very difficult to eliminate. People used to call it keeping up appearances, nowadays we’d refer to it as personal branding.

Now I’m not saying that we all have to become full-time professional bloggers. But what you can do, nay should do, is maintain a profile on the Internet that reflects who you want to be seen as. Reserve an account for yourself on the big social networks, put up information that’s relevant and appropriate, and do periodic Google searches on yourself to make sure you’re not being misrepresented.

Maybe some day, in the future, we’ll all be more understanding about youthful indiscretions on-line. But for now, your first impression will be your Google ranking, so you’d best make the most of it.


smiling

Pay it forward

  • 7th Aug, 2006 at 11:18 PM

I met [info]wlach today for a spot of coffee. He was in the neighbourhood and rang me up. How could I refuse?

As we were chatting, the topic of reciprocity came up. You know, where I do you a favour and then you return it some day? Paying someone back for a good turn (or a bad one) is something that's rather ingrained in our culture. And it's fairly reliable, if you can account for each transaction. Tit-for-tat is one of the most successful exchange strategies out there. Just ask [info]bramcohen.

But it doesn't fully capitalize on the network effect. You can only tap into the network of people for who owe you a favour. But those people might not be poised to help you. Instead, I advocate another model.

On Saturday, I found a camera case sitting on a bench along St-Denis. Inside was a digital camera and a wallet. Using my well-developed deductive skills, I ascertained the identity of the owner, whom I shall call X. Using my well-developed "stalking" skills, I got in contact with X who came by and picked up the bag. X was very, very thankful. In return, I asked that X offer random, spontaneous help to people who seemed deserving.

With any luck, my deed will pop into mind the next time X wants to brush off someone or walk past something. After all, everybody is really busy. When I first came across this concept, I had no idea that it had a name. But some people have called it paying it forward. Which is a rather apt name. Ironically, this concept only became popular after a large, multinational conglomerate made a film about it.

I figure that since the world of people that I know is very small, and that I'm well connected with others, it's only a matter of time before my little quantum of niceness gets back to me. If I keep on pumping niceness into the system, and others do the same, my small efforts will multiply. After all, the amount of good I can do is limited to how much time I have and the people I know. But my network of friends is much, much larger.

The only problem is that of leeches. People who only take and don't give to the system. That's where being judgemental comes in. When you notice that some folks never seem to help their friends, or to help you, then you have to fall back to tit-for-tat. And spread the news that this person is a leech, so that your friends do the same. This quickly shuts down the drain on your collective kindness, while still allowing you to be a decent human being.

Of course, I paid for wlach's coffee. He's a good friend, after all.


photography

Cryptic observation

  • 22nd Oct, 2005 at 1:13 PM

The Internet is full of people with weblogs who write about things in the vaguest possible terms. There is just enough histrionics to pique the curiousity, without enough context to be actually coherent. I'm feeling sort of left out in this trend, but I do abhor dramatics and discombobulation. So here is a message, in my own cryptic style:

Lemma 1: Attractive people draw more attention.

Corollary 1.1: Attractive people who post pictures of themselves on the Internet, draw more attention.

Lemma 2: Attention, on a weblog, is shown in the form of commenting.

Corollary 1.2: Attractive people who post pictures of themselves on their weblogs, attract more comments.

Theorem 3: The attractiveness of a person with a weblog can be defined as c/f, where c is the number of "hawt" comments to photographs, and f is the number of friends subscribed to that person's weblog.

Proof of Theorem 3 is left as an exercise to the reader.


formal

On Trusting Trust, or Leading by Loyalty

  • 14th Oct, 2005 at 12:28 AM

In a previous entry, I asserted that trust is an effective tool when interacting with people. Not only is it important in the work-a-day world, but it's the force that binds friends and family. I'd be willing to wager that civilisation would fall were it not for trust. For my discussion to go any further, I sort of have to demonstrate this to you.

Human beings are social animals. What this means to ethologists is that we form complex social structures. Human beings group together for common causes, fight amongst each other, take care of each other, and are generally communicative. For any social structure not to devolve into chaos, there must be some belief in the ability to predict what someone else will do. To interact with these people, you need to be able to rely on their integrity and veracity. That is trust.

If you look at children, you'll see that every one of us was born to trust by default. We're really quite helpless when we're young: we've only got about a dozen reflexes that aren't particularly good at protecting us from danger. So the baby has no choice but to rely on its parents. As we get older, we learn to distrust people because some of them will take advantage of our naïvity. But I highly suspect that even the most cynical person still longs to trust fellow humans, although that is a generally unwise course of action.

However, there still needs to be trust between people; since it's the only foundation for how individuals form groups, which network to form societies. If you have the trust of other people, they will likely help you in life. Of course, you are expected to reciprocate. Since life isn't a zero-sum game, if you manage this correctly then all of you will gain more than you will lose.

Say you want to accomplish something difficult, like moving an upright piano up a staircase. If you find someone to help you move it, you're going to need some element of trust. Both of you have to communicate and trust that the other person isn't lying to you when you decide to pick up the piano. The person on the bottom has to trust that the person on top won't push the piano down the stairs, when they are halfway up. Why, you even have to trust that "moving a piano" isn't just a convenient excuse to have you trapped in a stairwell with your arms occupied. If we were all paranoid, nobody would be able to get pianos into upstairs rooms. Granted, this might make the neighbours downstairs happy, but it's no way to build a stable society.

So people are willing to put trust in other people. For some people, you might be willing to place unconditional trust. For others, it might be a calculated risk to trust them with something.

An example of a social group where trust is a fairly stable feature is the family. Whether it's a small, nuclear family or a large, extended community; humans have had the concept of kinship for a very long time. For example, in societies with strong familial systems, there's a strong element of trust: children trust their parents to take care of them, to protect them, and to guide them; parents trust that when they grow old, their children will look after them. In countries that are more independent, this still flows in one direction. And the family is a fairly stable structure, even considering how often they break down. Mostly, this stability can be attributed to the irrational love that bonds parents and children together. Only incredible stress can overcome the default trust relationship that exists.

However, once you start scaling, then trust gets exponentially more difficult. When you have a group of people like the Debian Project, we see a completely different magnitude of undertaking. For those of you who are unfamiliar, the Debian Project maintains Debian GNU/Linux, which is an operating system that consists entirely of Free Software. There are 1400 registered volunteers who all contribute to its care and development. Currently, they oversee the packaging of over fifteen-hundred distinct pieces of software, and solve hundred bugs per day. Inside Debian, volunteers have to co-ordinate with each other to get things done. Some people are more co-operative than others, some people are less willing to entertain suggestions than others. They have to trust each other enough to work together, and trust each other not to do something malicious to the group.

This is not an easy problem. And one that Debian has yet to solve effectively.

Corporations solve this by imposing hierarchies. They use position power, or rank, to demand that things get done in a certain way. People are placed above other people, in a place called management. The management has some rather primitive tools to encourage or discourage behaviour from their subordinates. Simple rewards, like a promotion; and simple punishments, like a demotion. Not that this actually removes trust from the equation of the corporate social environment. People still have to trust that they're not lying to each other. They still have to trust that they won't sabotage each other's work. Of course, in a large enough group of people, in a competitive business environment, there will be people who will lie, backstab, and steal for their own personal gain. Some corporations, in an attempt to reduce this effect, enact policies against anti-social behaviour that include punishments like firing. I've noticed that these policies seem to encourage everyone to be more paranoid, leading to less real work getting done as people scurry around trying to prevent themselves from taking the blame or getting fired. I once worked at a place like this and was one of the few productive people in a maelstrom of "cover-my-ass".

This is also not an easy problem. Interestingly enough, management science literature doesn't talk very much about trust, except tangentally in case-studies. It appears, however, that reducing your reliance on trust doesn't get you anywhere quickly. Your group just breaks down that much faster, instead of slower. So the only choice appears to be nurturing trust.

This is an incredibly difficult problem. Which I shall have to discuss in another entry.


formal

Trust, and Personal Position Power

  • 12th Sep, 2005 at 3:08 AM

Avery seems to have started a little dialogue with me on his weblog, with a series of essays. I'm going to continue writing on this topic because it is (a) interesting and (b) something I like thinking about.

Avery's thoughts have meandered down the path of power, which is great because that's where I wanted to walk down as well. As a Free Software developer, I'm quite aware that the lack of concentration of power is a big problem with Free Software projects. So I ask myself, what is power and how is it concentrated?

Looking at the general business literature, you can classify organisational power into two branches: position power and personal power. The literature distinguishes between individual power and group power, but I'm unconvinced that this is a useful divide, since you can treat a group as being a person suffering from multiple-personality disorder. I'm even going to posit that any group that doesn't act like a reasonable person is ineffectual and has barely any power at all.

Position power is very : it is the power that comes from external sources; power that comes from an office. Examples of this type of power are: authority due to rank and position, the ability to award rewards, the capacity to administer punishments, and the possession of privileged information.

Personal power is quite : it is power that comes from within; an inherent power. Examples are: the ability to persuade people, the possession of superior domain knowledge or judgement, respect and reputation, as well as sheer charisma.

I think most organisations suffer because the mean balance of position and personal power is incorrect. Typically, there will be a bias towards one type of power to the detriment of the other. For instance, in the United States military, position power is very important and permeates the entire structure. Orders are to be followed because a higher ranking officer has issued them. In the Debian project, people must be painfully persuaded that a particular action is correct, and days are wasted arguing points and premises.

These two extremes are quite detrimental because they are merely projections of true power, and not the real thing. To be more concrete: position power without personal power is transitory. Eventually, people are sick of unjustified requests and seemingly random demands. Personal power without position power is ineffectual. Decisions are eventually reached, but may no longer be relevant.

What to do? What to do? Luckily, we are thinking of these two powers in 陰陽 duality. Instead of being conflicting opposites, you can see that no one power can truly exist without the other, because they are shadows of true power. What is a good way of having both?

You use trust! Trust allows you to mix personal power and position power, by using the former to justify the latter. People willingly co-operate with the authority because it is merited and legitimate. Since trust is fleeting and fragile, efforts must be made to assure people that their trust is warranted. You can do this by exposing privileged information and persuading people that decisions were correct, by allowing them to verify the reasoning themselves. Rewards should be given in a way that people agree upon, and punishments effected by the entire group. By encouraging collective confirmation of concentrated power, organisations can harness true power to become more effective.

In Avery's terminology, using true power amortises (but sadly doesn't eliminate) the effect of Quantization on Exclusivity. That is to say that people become more willing to suppress their own personal good for a collective good that is also in their interests. Understandably, this is far more difficult in North American society where individualism is highly prized. In cultures that are strongly collectivist, studies have shown that people are far more willing to come together under a leader towards a common goal.

However, trust is hard work to earn and hard work to maintain. Like a house of cards, it takes tremendous effort to build but a misplaced word can knock it down. That is why people who have been entrusted with power need to continually prove that this trust is deserved. Mistakes made should be quickly acknowledged and corrected, in order to prevent a grave loss of morale.

An important point to bring up here is to draw in here from Avery's discussion is membership control and its effects on groups. The standard way to control membership in a group is to select who can join and who must leave. I'm all for discriminating for traits that are beneficial to the common goal. Allowing anyone and everyone to join leads to an overwhelming mediocrity. But we must beware of naïvely following this rule: "if someone agrees with what you're doing, you hire them. If they disagree, you fire them." You need to examine how this person behaves in the context of the common goal; not just personal interaction. If someone agrees with your goal, but disagrees with you personally, you should strongly consider hiring that person. This individual could give you valuable insight that you might never come up with. If someone disagrees with your goal, but constantly agrees with you, this person is a sociopath and you should fire them. Then get a restraining order.

This doesn't just apply to people in positions of trust trying to manage a group. It's also good advice reciprocally. If you've placed someone in a position of trust, but the circumstances have changed such that this trust is no longer well placed, it is only wise to stop letting this person make decisions. This is especially important in fields that are fast-moving, because for the group to succeed, you can only make so many choices based on false premises before you're doomed to failure. Likewise, if the group recognises someone is especially trustworthy, then give them enough power so that their good decisions can have a positive effect. It is in this way that you keep the leadership of your group effective, because the leaders have motivation to stay relevant and confirm their legitimacy.

By definition, a group that follows this will have effective leaders and a strong centralised power structure. And this allows the singly responsible leader to exert control, because it is demonstrably warranted. Not only is it in the rational best-interest for everyone to follow these decisions, but also the emotional best-interest. This is a very important consideration, because humans are highly irrational beings.

I will have to write further meditations on trust: its effects, advantages and disadvantages.


formal

Trust, and Magical Management Methods

  • 10th Sep, 2005 at 2:30 AM

Avery has been writing about group dynamics, which is a subject that I've put some thought into. I've always been interested in how to get people to do things that are good for them: whether it's getting kids to eat broccoli, or getting friends to invest in RRSPs.

After a while, I sort of gave up on direct coercion; that almost never works well in the end. What you basically have to do is get people to think of these things for themselves, and then they will be happy to do them.

How does this factor into Avery's dilemma of organisational messiness? Let's examine his argument, as challenged:

He's correct in asserting that one person can only do a certain amount of work. That's why groups of people can accomplish tasks no single person could ever manage in a lifetime. There are plenty of examples where co-operation has led to Great Works.

I have to agree with tying responsibility to power. Responsibilty for something you have no control over is just a way of shifting blame. And I'll even give Avery the premise that only one person should be responsible for any one thing, because otherwise the communications overhead will result in some responsibilities being unfulfilled.

But the conclusions he begins to draw are a little weird. These are not if-and-only-if statements.

If we work together to solve large problems (Limited Energy), and only one person can be responsible for a particular outcome (Exclusivity), and the person responsible for an outcome has to have power to control that outcome (Balance), then a logical conclusion is this: for any large problem, a single person must have final responsibility to tell other people on the project what to do, and the power to enforce his decision.

That's quite a leap to get to. A far more reasonable conclusion is: a single person must have the power to determine what contributed work is used, and what work is thrown away. And Avery realises this, because nobody really has true power to tell someone what to do.

This messes up our nice, clean system. Quantization says you can't give someone power over someone else's actions. Balance says you can't give someone responsibility for someone else's actions if you can't give them the power too. Exclusivity says, in that case, that your manager has no power at all. The reason we wanted him to have power was because Limited Energy says he can't do it all himself, and Exclusivity says only a single person must be held responsible for the overall result.

So how do successful managers convince people to assemble large projects? Because it is possible, and often desirable, to acquiesce to someone with a bigger picture. But a hierarchy that subjugates people causes them to malfunction, because they will rebel. And co-operatives often lead to in-fighting because people believe nobody should be permanently in charge.

Which is why I'm enamoured in so-called communities of interest. Where people with similar goals get together to co-operate towards a common outcome. It seems on the surface to be a dysfunctional co-operative, where people argue about things endlessly. People join and people quit, and there's rarely any overall stability. If you look a little deeper, you'll notice that there is typically a stable core of people making decisions. Not just technical decisions, but also social decisions. Oft-times they are difficult and unpleasant ones. And these decisions are respected! So underneath, it looks like a hierarchy. Why do they work this way? Because this core group has proven itself to make good decisions before. If they didn't, people would just stop listening to them.

If you look at business books that tell you how to be a successful manager, you'll notice plenty of "case studies" or anecdotes about how the best managers stay out of the way of their charges. Moreover, they talk about how they try very hard to remove obsticles to work, so that the team can get around to doing the things it should be doing, instead of being distracted all the time. Often, the team delegates unpleasant decisions or tasks to this manager that the manager is good at doing, or doesn't hate doing. Which basically sounds a lot like what communities of interest do spontaneously.

So the pattern I see is that real power is always handed from bottom-up, although most organisations try to wield arbitrary power from top-down. Leading to the inevitable clash between "lowly employees" and "upper management." Because "upper management" has lost, or never had, 天命. Typically, these things turn nasty. Because the true power is always in the employees' hands, and the only thing upper management can do is throw away this power through firings. This is not completely wise, because it hurts both the employee and the organization; if it didn't, unions would be mostly powerless.

Now, I have to be careful here, because I don't want to be arguing for the tyranny of the majority. It is very easy for people who don't have global information to make very good local optimisations that just suck for a large organisation. You see this in large companies where "the left hand doesn't know what the right hand is doing." So what is the correct thing to do?

I'm not really sure, but at minimum, it is obvious that all levels of management must be built on top of a stable foundation of trust. The people being managed need to be able to trust that more global decisions are being made to further the collective goal. If this trust is created and is maintained, it is possible to magically raise the amount of energy a person can direct, because it is seen as a useful end. This is why charismatic leaders are so effective at organising huge movements: they convince people that their goal is laudable and people work towards it because they trust their leader's direction.


nightlife

Trip to Hong Kong, Day 18, Part 2

  • 13th Jan, 2005 at 6:11 AM

More observations about China, that I didn't make because I was too groggy when I got back. (Actually, cough medication over here packs a big punch. They must put some sleeping drugs in it, because normal decongestent-expectorant formulas don't make you incredibly tired.

Toll highways are everywhere in China, and they criss-cross the countryside. They cut through fields and mountains, apparently without regard to cost. I watched some people repave part of the expressway, and they were doing it by hand. That's right. Jackhammers for digging up the road, and people pushing around cement with paddles. It's truly scary how much cheap manpower China has.

The cities in China seem to be a hodgepodge of different architectures. There are little hovels sprinkled between huge concrete structures that show explosive growth. The design of all these buildings are about the same, with shps at the bottom, flats up top, and a terrace on the roof. All of this is built on red-clay soil.

The strangest thing about China is how little regard there is for life. People go about spitting in the streets after coughing up phlegm. People throw garbage into piles in their own backyards. Workers don't wear safety glasses or ear protection. Factories spew black clouds into the air.

Speaking of which, today was the first day of rain in a long time. It wasn't much of a rain, more of a continuous drizzle from morning to night. But it did clear the air a bit, and you could see off to the horizon. No stars came out at night though, and the moon was still obscured by a thin yellow haze.


nightlife

On pictures of women in Hong Kong

  • 10th Jan, 2005 at 9:49 AM

When I first arrived in Hong Kong, I was stunned by the lack of provocatively dressed women on billboards. Mind you, I come from Montréal, where this thing is rather prevalent; but at Hong Kong International Airport, the most provocative thing I saw was Nicole Kidman tossing her hair to advertise a watch.

As I've travelled the city, I've acquired a greater understanding of how women are portrayed here. There are three major categories of women protrayal: mother, model, and sex object.

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I suppose there's far too much detail and analysis here for someone who has just been here for a scant two weeks. I can't help but compare the differences between how women are seen here, and in Canada. Even though both places are first world and very Western in culture, it's still interesting to see what goes for acceptable, from the streets to the porn shops.